Monday, 1 June 2015

6th International Conference



So looking forward to Los Angeles! 

It takes me back to the organisation of the previous conference on Ageing and Spirituality in Edinburgh in July 2013 which I remember with great affection and happily so do others.  Wondering about how warm the city will be probably won’t be a major issue in Los Angeles but people were geared up to bringing coats and wellington boots to Edinburgh and it turned out to be the hottest week we had all summer!

The greatest pleasure was having the opportunity to meet so many active and creative people who are doing marvellous work in different places in the world.  There is so much to share and so much affirmation of the importance of the spiritual dimension in the lives of older people.

‘Coming together’ – I know just how this feels in the planning stage but it is so much more as the conference will bring such a diverse group together from all over the place to renew and develop friendships and I look forward to meeting old and new friends and meeting the challenge of contributing to a workshop.  The planned programme is very exciting and come the days it will all be so worthwhile.  I still feel a warm glow about Edinburgh and have a keen anticipation about Los Angeles and the opportunity to widen perspectives and ideas and to be part of this evolving worldwide family. One legacy of the Edinburgh Conference is the quilt of the ‘Tree of Life‘ to which all the participants contributed will come with me to be handed on as part of the creative spirit theme.

For information about the 6th International Conference -Paradox and Promise in the Pilgrimage of Ageing’ please go to:  http://www.6thinternationalconference.org  for programme and registration details

The ‘Tree of Life’ quilt designed by Carole Sowton and created by the participants of the 
5th International Conference on Ageing and Spirituality 2013

Maureen O’Neill,
Director, Faith in Older People

Thursday, 19 February 2015

Awareness

I've been out and about doing research interviews with care home staff, exploring what 'spiritual care' means to them. It's been a privilege to enter into those worlds with all their challenges and delights, and I'm very grateful to those of you who have given me the time and space to discuss your thoughts.

'Spiritual care' is as always a bit of a nebulous concept. Here's what the NHS have to say about it, in their marvellous publication, 'Reflections of Life: Words of Comfort and Encouragement' (NHS Education for Scotland 2011):

'Dealing with illness, injury, undergoing clinical investigations or potentially life changing events and losses may stimulate a range of feelings, questions and thoughts within us. Perhaps some of these may be experienced for the first time in our lives with such intensity and immediacy ... spiritual need is part of what it is to be human.'

Salted caramel chocolate torteMany of us will be thinking about Lent and wondering whether or how this season might help us with our own feelings, questions and thoughts. Yesterday I was going to a meeting and grabbed a cake for my hostess - remembering en route that 'salted caramel with chocolate and coffee' is hardly a traditional Lenten offering. However Sue very kindly pointed out that often nowadays we are being invited to consider adding something to our daily lives rather than giving something up - something that will focus us more clearly on our deepest callings, and perhaps also help someone else. So we ate the cake guilt-free! Thank you Sue! In my defence I have to say that the cake I took was a much more modest version than the one pictured above - but if you're looking for this one, click the link for the recipe.



Here's an evening prayer from the book mentioned above, by Ewan Kelly. Ewan has kindly given us permission to reproduce this. Maybe it'll be helpful for you as you feel your way forward through the slings and arrows of life, in Lent and beyond:
:

Prayer of Awareness

Settle in a chair you feel comfortable in.
Take a few deep breaths.
Ask God to shed light on your day.
Slowly recall the day allowing the moments which you enjoyed or were
life enhancing to emerge. Pause over these times.
Ask God to show you the events, the people, the moods, the feelings,
the circumstances which were enlivening and for which you would like
to give thanks. And give thanks.
Again slowly recall the day, looking for those moments which were difficult,
when you felt not at your best. What is being revealed here?
Ask God for help or perhaps for forgiveness to deal with what has come up.
How does tomorrow seem to you?
Ask for God's help and entrust yourself to God's love and care.


Thank you again  Ewan, and our good wishes to you in your new job.